Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Love + Respect = Peace

Websters dictionary defines love as "to feel a passion, devotion, or tenderness for; to take pleasure in; a beloved person."

Websters dictionary defines respect as "to consider deserving of high regard."

We cannot have peace until we have mutual love and respect for each other. We have to accept that people are not carbon copies of each other; and, really who would want that? We would lead really boring lives if we were all exactly alike. Where's the fun in a life where everyone and everything is exactly alike? People are different! That doesn't make one bad and another good. It makes us human. Why should we get in a fight about differences? Celebrate them!

We have to learn to communicate with each other before we get into a fight. Don't be so quick to scream at the other person. When you scream, thinking you are making someone hear you better, you are only pushing that person further away from you. You are pushing them further away from the possibility of a peaceful solution.

What I really want to say is this: God loves you. If you really want to know what true peace is, allow God to love you. I didn't know I was worthy of His love. I have never known such peace as when I said yes to my commitment to the Lord. All those things that seem to be impossible to me seem attainable. I talk about more good things than bad. I have a different approach of handling the bad things that happen to me. I really do find myself thinking about how Jesus would handle things. He fills me with such peace.

Here is my plan. Maybe instead of getting mad at people we should show them a touch of kindness. How good it feels to do something nice for someone. Personally, I love to cook. There is something very satisfying about fixing something nice to eat and sharing it with someone. The look that crosses someone's face over a nice home cooked meal is priceless. I think the next time I see that someone is mad at me, I'll try baking them a loaf of bread and some homemade salsa. That's something that is guaranteed to put a smile on their face. Then maybe we can have a nice chat instead of an argument.

Love + Respect = Peace  Let's all try it.

Happy Reading!
Tela

14 comments:

  1. I love that I know that you practice what you preach. You are one of the most giving people I have ever encountered always helping other authors. Thanks Tela.

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    1. Thank you, Catalina!! You are a wonderful lady and I am honored to be part of this peace blitz today!

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    1. Thank you, Vickieann! Have a great evening!

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  3. Great perceptions! I truly believe that failure to acknowledge and accept humanity's differences is the root cause of war.

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    1. Thank you,Yvonne! You are right. We can't think about differences as being bad. We can learn from each other if we will just try to be understanding.

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  4. What a lovely post, Tela. You are clearly a very giving person :)

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  5. Had to read it again...So enjoy your candor.

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  6. Such a sweet post. Wouldn't it be awesome if instead of fighting we would all share some nachos? But you're on the right track. To leave behind anger and hate, even when you've been wronged, that would give us more peace than all the vendettas so many of us carry to our deaths. Lovely idea!

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